The Mantra of Successful Relationships - Part III

TO BEGIN WITH: THIS POST IS THIRD IN THIS SERIES. IN CASE YOU HAVE MISSED THE FIRST ONE, HERE IT IS
THE MANTRA OF SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS - PART I
THE MANTRA OF SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS - PART II

It is only trust that provides a strong foundation for building a lifelong relationship. Lies cannot be the stepping stones of a budding relationship. For being true to others we first have to be true to ourselves. This means confessing to our own self our weaknesses whenever we falter, or are incapable of doing a thing.
Another very important factor is commitment. And it is not something that binds us to a particular relation on the basis of some compulsion. Commitment is when we want to be bound in that relationship with all our heart and soul. It is something heartfelt. It also means to remain steadfast and not changing with the changing times, like fair-weather friends. We should not measure our wealth by the amount of money we have, but by the things we have which we won’t trade for any price. This is commitment in the true sense of the term, with no conditions attached; only dominated by the strings of heart. We don’t love a person for what he has, or because of what he has done but simply what he/she is – the selfless and unconditional love.
‘Yes’ and ‘No’ are two very short words. But a lot of problems are created when we don’t use these words carefully. Decide once and for all but once decided then stick to it. Don’t waver in your opinions. Commitment means being there for your partner now and forever.

SO COMMITMENT IS THE KEYWORD…
BE THERE FOR YOUR PARTNER NOW AND FOREVER!

5 comments:

  1. Nice. I needed this for the future. :P

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  2. And it is not something that binds us to a particular relation on the basis of some compulsion. ....so true.Very inspiring post!

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  3. Another nice one dear!!
    I liked the last para... "yes" and "no"...!

    "Decide once and for all but once decided then stick to it. Don’t waver in your opinions." -- Wonderful.. life is not complex, it is just we have made it complicated by these wavering thoughts and then we regret :)

    Regards,
    Dimple

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